2023 has been a very challenging year for me. I am a researcher in South Korea and for almost 2 years I do not have a concrete result. I have lots of machine, pump, water bath problems. Every experiment failed.
I lost hope.
I was blinded by circumstances to the point that I rebelled with God! (Oh no, please do not do this).
But, despite everything, there are a lot of things to be thankful for!
2023 made me realize a lot of things, so here are the lessons I've learned and discovered:
- You are your own cheerleader. No one can push you except you.
- You decide for your own happiness. Do not let other people steal your joy and peace.
- Studying abroad is never easy but fulfilling. You discover yourself more when placed in a different environment.
- You cannot please everyone. You are not everyone's cup of tea.
- When in Korea, be like Koreans. Know their culture and do not assume everyone is polite. Some are good in hiding their true intentions.
- Be kind, anyway.
- Life is too short to focus on the negative things. Always make an effort to counter those negative things with positive ones. Create positive experiences for yourself. Don't wait for other person or opportunities. Always create it by yourself.
- Make other people happy. When you do so, you also make yourself happy.
- Be patient. I know sometimes we want to be successful right away. But take one step at a time and enjoy the process. Learn the lessons you need to learn everyday. It will pay off in the future.
- It is okay to seek professional help if the things you carry are so heavy.
So, that's it. I am not finished yet with my studies but I have the persistence, strength, and resilience to push through it until August 2024 - My Graduation.
God sustains me and never leaves me nor forsakes me until now... So, I learned to be still and do my part.
I hope my story will give you inspiration. This is a very brief summary of what I have been through. I will tell you more and upload more blogs next time. My priority now is thesis writing.
I have a lot of pictures and videos and cannot wait to share it with you!
God bless your dreams!
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